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title: Should You Quit Your Job or Stay? The Truth No One Tells You [W&S 131]
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# Should You Quit Your Job or Stay? The Truth No One Tells You \[W&S 131\]

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Is job-hopping really the key to better pay and faster promotions? Or could it be quietly harming your long-term career in Singapore?

We speak with two seasoned professionals—Shelly Chan and Yinn Ewe—who stayed over a decade in the same organisation and climbed the ladder through internal mobility, not constant switching.

We unpack:

- The real cost of job-hopping vs staying
- Whether 30% pay jumps are worth the risk
- What hiring managers actually think of frequent job changes
- Internal talent mobility: how to grow without leaving
- How mindset, personal purpose and people-fit impact your long game

 Perfect for Singaporean professionals wondering: Should I stay for stability or leave for growth?

Whether you're mid-career, exploring your next move, or in HR thinking about talent retention, this episode gives you candid insights and frameworks that go beyond surface-level career advice.

Leave a comment if you’ve ever struggled with this decision—and tell us what finally made you stay or go.

**What We Discuss:**

- [06:27](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AraR0JQUb1s&t=387s) How can you tell if someone left a job mainly for financial gain?
- [10:29](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AraR0JQUb1s&t=629s) How do you justify frequent moves to hire‑ers?
- [13:27](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AraR0JQUb1s&t=807s) Personal Experiences with Pay Increments
- [23:43](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AraR0JQUb1s&t=1423s) What’s the first move when growth stops?
- [28:27](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AraR0JQUb1s&t=1707s) How do you go from shy to assertive on raises?
- [34:22](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AraR0JQUb1s&t=2062s) Dealing with Colleague Competition and Personal Growth

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